Conditional love is a love that is based upon the recipient of the love meeting certain conditions imposed by the lover. As opposed to the humanistic belief of unconditional love, it is argued that all forms of love are conditional in nature.[1][2] While unconditional love is said to be the ideal of romantic, parental, or other meaningful relationships, it cannot be completely achieved. Many relationships require the use of conditions in order to satisfy the needs of the lover and recipient.[1]
This doesn't necessarily imply that conditional love is selfish or reward seeking, but rather asserts that love is achieved upon meeting the conditions that the lover views as valuable.[3] If a lover feels love for another, it is likely due to the other's qualities that match the ideals of the lover - meaning it is conditional. This sort of love is created by the values of these conditions put by the lover themselves.[4]
It is possible, and actually ideal for conditional and unconditional love to coexist. Conditions are necessary for lovers to examine their values while identifying the benefits of a relationship compared to the detriments or risks. At the same time, unconditional love shows a reduction of risk and a willingness to show appreciation to the other.[5]
^Gilbert, Helen (2020-12-17), "Should love be unconditional?", Love, Sex and Psychotherapy in a Post-Romantic Era, Routledge, pp. 7–14, ISBN 978-1-003-09647-4, retrieved 2023-11-20
^Moore, Dwayne (March 2018). "Reconciling Appraisal Love and Bestowal Love". Dialogue. 57 (1): 67–92. doi:10.1017/S0012217317000683. ISSN 0012-2173.
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